My top tips for finding community in London.
London is full of incredibly exciting and interesting people, but it can also feel overwhelming, especially when you’re trying to build a social circle. Fear not, fellow Londoners (and soon-to-be Londoners!), because making friends in this bustling city is entirely possible. It just takes a little initiative and a dash of London charm. Having moving out of London twice, it has always taken me 1-2 years to fully re-establish my friendship groups again here, and they are always evolving and changing due to people coming and going. However, here are some of the steps I have taken that have proved useful.
Embrace the Power of Meetup:
Meetup.com is a goldmine for connecting with people who share your passions. Whether you’re into board games, coding, photography, or even urban foraging, there’s likely a group for you. Joining a Meetup group instantly connects you with like-minded individuals, providing a natural platform for conversation and shared experiences.
Hike Your Way to Friendship:
London may be a concrete jungle, but just outside of the city there are beautiful green spaces and access to stunning countryside. Joining a hiking group, many of which can be found on Meetup, is a fantastic way to meet people while enjoying the fresh air and stunning scenery. The shared challenge of a hike, coupled with the relaxed atmosphere, makes it easy to bond with fellow ramblers. Usually hiking groups go for a drink after the hikes, where you will have a chance for further conversation and bonding.
Learn Something New, Meet Someone New:
Signing up for a course is a double win. You gain new skills and knowledge, and you also get to interact with a group of people who share your interest. From cooking classes to language lessons, the possibilities are endless. Check out local community centres, adult education providers, and online platforms for courses that spark your curiosity. Most universities offer evening classes but there are just tonnes of local courses being run all over the city.
Unleash Your Inner Creative
Joining a group focused on creative pursuits can be incredibly rewarding, both personally and socially. Think comedy training, poetry writing workshops, or even a local choir. These activities provide a fun and engaging environment where you can express yourself and connect with others on a deeper level.
Tap into the Power of Locals
Apps like Locals are designed to connect people within specific communities. They can be a great way to discover local events, connect with neighbours, and find people who share your interests within your immediate area.
Volunteer
So the one thing I found through volunteering, was how many like minded people I have met. Whilst I don’t necessarily volunteer to make friends, it is just the absolute plus. Check our https://simplyvolunteerlondon.uk/ for volunteering opportunities in London.
General Tips for Friend-Making Success:
- Friendship is Like Dating (Sort Of): Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Suggest grabbing coffee, exploring a new museum, or checking out a local pub. Not every connection will be a home run, and that’s okay! Don’t be discouraged if you don’t click with everyone you meet. Just keep trying.
- Consistency is Key: London is a transient city, and people are always coming and going. To build strong friendships, consistency is crucial. Show up regularly to group events, stay in touch, and demonstrate that you’re invested in the relationships.
- Localise Your Tribe: London is huge! While it’s great to have friends across the city, having a core group of friends who live nearby can make a big difference. It allows for more spontaneous meet-ups, easier get-togethers, and a stronger sense of community. Focus on building connections within your local area to make your London life more manageable and fulfilling.
- Bring people together: If you are on the search for friendships, it is likely those you meet are too. As such, be the person that brings people together and start forming the community that you wish to be part of.
Making friends in London takes time and effort, but it’s absolutely achievable. By embracing these tips and putting yourself out there, you’ll be well on your way to building a thriving social life in this incredible city. Good luck, and happy friend-making!
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